Midlife Women: The Caretakers, the Givers, and the Keepers of the Universe

I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.  ~ Maya Angelou

There’s something undeniably powerful about midlife women. We often hold things together, whether it’s family, community, or the spirit of those around us. We take care of those we love, give our time and energy freely, and quietly carry the world's weight on our shoulders. But in the midst of this, there’s a beautiful, untapped opportunity: a chance for us to step into a new vision of what life can be—one that brings us growth, reflection, and a renewed sense of purpose.

This chapter isn’t just about what we do for others; it’s also about what we’re ready to do for ourselves.

Shaping a New Vision for Ourselves—and for the World

As midlife women, we’re in a unique position. With experience, wisdom, and a clear understanding of what matters most, we have the power to help shape the world around us. But shaping a better world isn’t only about grand gestures. It can be as simple as taking small, intentional steps that reflect our values and the wisdom we’ve gathered. It’s also about recognizing that we are influencing the world each time we create something meaningful—whether it’s a community, a family tradition, or a personal project.

But in order to give our best, we need to nurture ourselves. This time of life offers us the chance to rediscover who we are, what brings us joy, and where we want to go. In doing so, we find ourselves renewed and capable of being the grounded, unstoppable force that others look to for strength and inspiration.

Tips for Rediscovering Your Essence and Embracing Your Goals

• Take Intentional Pauses
  Being unstoppable doesn’t mean pushing through exhaustion. It means knowing when to stop, breathe, and regroup. Give yourself permission to pause—without guilt. Use these pauses to listen to your inner voice, to reflect, and to re-align with your purpose.

• Reflect on Your Journey
  Look back on what you’ve done, both the achievements and the lessons learned. Reflecting on your journey helps you see the threads of strength, resilience, and courage woven through your life. This self-awareness is key to understanding your unique gifts and the impact you want to make.

• Reframe Your Goals
  Midlife offers the chance to reshape your goals. What do you want to create, pursue, or let go of? Redefine what success means to you now. Whether exploring a new career, diving into a creative project, or finding more time for loved ones, remember that this is your time to design a vision that excites and fulfills you.

• Be Gentle with Yourself
  Strength doesn’t mean you have to be a Superwoman. It means standing back up after being knocked down, assessing your needs, and patiently moving forward. Allow yourself the grace to feel, rest, and find joy in simple and grand moments.

• Connect and Collaborate
  Embrace your community of other strong, inspiring women. Sharing experiences, wisdom, and support creates a powerful network. These connections can provide insight, encouragement, and a reminder that we’re not alone in our journeys.

• Celebrate Your Evolution
  Embrace the journey of becoming. This stage is a time to honor the fullness of who you are—strong and tender, wise and still curious, giving yet ready to receive. Celebrate your evolution, newfound wisdom, and the opportunities waiting to be discovered.

Carrying On, Not as Superwoman, But as Unstoppable

Being unstoppable doesn’t mean doing it all or doing it perfectly. It means carrying on, even when tired or discouraged. It means knowing that the journey itself—filled with ups and downs—is what shapes us and makes us who we are. Being unstoppable is about resilience, but it’s also about honoring our humanity. It’s about standing back up when we’re deflated, finding a new way to move forward, and realizing that each step matters. 

So, let’s take this moment in midlife to honor our role as the caretakers, givers, and keepers of the universe. Let’s also seize the opportunity to shape a new vision for ourselves and the world—one that allows us to thrive, grow, and rediscover the beautiful strength within.

We are not here to be Superwoman; we’re here to carry on, rise, create, and live a life that is deeply our own.

Transformative Travel for Midlife Women: Confidence, Connection, and Mindfulness in Africa

Photos are from the personal archive of Janice Rombeck

In July, 13 midlife women embarked on a transformative adventure through Africa. This adventure pushed us beyond our comfort zones and deeply impacted our confidence and spirit. 

Witnessing majestic wildlife like elephants and penguins and reflecting on South Africa’s rich history opened everyone’s eyes to new perspectives. The awe-inspiring landscapes and meaningful connections with fellow travelers helped us discover a more profound sense of self-acceptance. This trip changed how many of us view the world and strengthened our commitment to engage more actively in shaping our future.

Travel during midlife, emphasizing transformation, connection, and mindfulness, profoundly shapes our perspectives. For each of us, the experiences become a journey of self-discovery and empowerment, offering a break from routine and a chance to step outside our comfort zones. Immersing ourselves in new cultures, experiences, and environments pushes us to confront our fears, grow, and embrace change, helping us to build confidence and resilience.

During our 16 days, we made meaningful connections with fellow travelers and locals. The conversations made us reflect on our own lives and broaden our understanding of this part of the world. These interactions foster empathy, open-mindedness, and a sense of shared humanity, helping us each reevaluate our roles and relationships.

Mindfulness—being present during each experience—enriches the travel experience by immersing ourselves fully in each moment. Whether it's the awe of natural wonders or navigating through challenges, being present helps us appreciate life’s fleeting beauty. This mindfulness carries over into our daily lives, encouraging us to savor each moment more fully and prioritize what truly matters. Staying present is an integral part of flourishing through midlife. 

Ultimately, traveling with other midlife women catalyzed our personal growth and offered new perspectives on how we see ourselves, our relationships, and the world around us. It empowered many of us to approach the future with renewed purpose, clarity, and strength. 

If you’ve ever found yourself seeking more meaning in your adventures or curious about the transformative power of travel, this post will speak directly to you. Get ready for two insightful and heartfelt stories from two of our fellow travelers.

We’re excited to have Janice Rombeck share her experience in our group.  As a reporter, editor, freelance writer, and communication manager, Janice brings a unique perspective on travel and offers insights that we think you'll find inspiring and actionable.

Here are thoughts from Janice: Travel brings with it many gifts -- adventure, exploration, companionship and the awakening of  our senses.  The memories from travel stay with you for a lifetime. And the lessons you learn during the journey shape who you are and who you are becoming.

But perhaps travel’s greatest gift is offering us the opportunity to stay in the moment, live in the here and now, be fully aware of what we are experiencing without being distracted by thoughts or feelings of the past or future.

During the Africa trip, we were transported to a new time and place, even a new season, where we could leave behind the troubles, pressures and worries of our daily lives and focus – really focus – on the moment.

Staying in the moment was sometimes a result of awe as in the first time we saw a family of rhinos from our safari jeep. Or staying in the moment was a necessity of survival as in navigating over rocks and through streams during the rugged hike to the waterfalls in Moremi Gorge.

Of course, we thought about and talked about our lives, our work, our families and our environments at home.  It was an important tool to learning about each other and, for some, a connection to loved ones left behind.  But during the activities of our jam-packed, adventure-filled days, we were there.  In the present.

We observed, photographed, expressed joy or fright, laughed at penguins and perhaps shed tears touring the Robben Island prisons. We supported each other, toasted our guides and helpers, danced when the music moved us, sang with the soundtrack on the bus. 

Looking at my photos and videos of the trip, and those posted on the Internet by others, can take me back to Botswana, Zimbabwe and South Africa, at least for a while.  I can feel the wonderment of watching a young elephant cross the road in front of us, or a giraffe sustaining its huge and complex body by nibbling at leaves above its head, a hippo crawling its way out of a mudhole as we float along the water in a riverboat, a monkey skillfully stealing a muffin from our table, the magic of seeing the sun and the moon at the same time on the Mkadigadi Pan, the sound and fury of Victoria Falls spilling over massive cliffs, or the simple clinking of wine glasses as we celebrated the end of another awesome day on a continent 10,000 miles away from our homes.   

Those memories bring the realization of what a special experience Africa 2024 was and a reflection of the gifts we received during the journey. As I returned to my real life, I sometimes longed to be back where I can hear hippos at night in the nearby river, taste springbok meat fresh from a braai grill, take in a gorgeous sunset with brilliant colors painted against the sky, observe from a safe distance mammals and birds not found in North America and once again enjoy the enormous break from the world I left.

Not that every moment of our trip was pleasant.  We experienced hard hikes, daily fatigue, lifting heavy suitcases and backpacks, hours on bus rides in temperatures that seemed way too hot to be winter, unexpected illness, disappointments and frustrations.  But even in these moments we were living, experiencing and feeling what was before us, around us and within us and were grateful for the awareness and the lessons these moments gave us.

Undeniably, we have moments of sharp focus and intense attention in our daily lives. Some of us are skilled at daily meditation, mindfulness exercises and periods of quiet reflection.  But more often, we are likely to be planning, scheduling, organizing, always trying to be a step ahead of what may happen next. 

Africa 2024 provided a sustained period of staying in the present, not just for us individually, but for us as a group.  Living in the here and now with each other and experiencing the awe and wonder of Africa in those moments enriched the benefits of travel for all of us. Those gifts from travel will stay with us and I’m grateful beyond measure to have made the journey with this group of adventurers.

We’re also thrilled to introduce you to Jolene, who has an incredible story from our trip! Jolene offers a fresh and inspiring perspective on embracing a transformational and life-changing travel experience. She shares how these experiences have shaped her new outlook on life.

Here are thoughts from Jolene: Our July 2024 Africa adventure was incredible! Not only did I demonstrate to myself that I can survive with zeal outside of my comfort zone, the trip impacted my self-confidence and spiritually. My self-confidence and self-worth have always been easily shaken. Whether it was rolling with our 50 degree swing in daily temperatures, listening and sharing stories with our group and guides or being in such a different place than I’ve ever visited I discovered a lot of self-acceptance in 16 days. It has carried into my life after returning home.

The impact spiritually and in my soul is all encompassed with the experience. Seeing elephants, giraffes, rhinos, lions and especially the penguins being free to live in their own habitat and humans of all races fitting into their lives shows that we really are one world. Walking and flying over magnificent Victoria Falls, one of the seven natural wonders of the world, provided such a visual of Earth’s creation. All the animals crossing or walking along side of the highways as we drove was so cool! Watching the penguins outside of Cape Town absolutely was the best highlight because they made everyone happy and laugh and were in general fascinating.

 The people experience, everything from conversations with our group and locals, the history of the South African vineyards and learning about Nelson Mandela and apartheid kept confirming that each person in this world has a different lens that shapes their everyday decisions and life. The trip provided me with a new lens to view and accept others as well as being more aware of how others might view me. History really does repeat itself. And, in the United States we are so fortunate to live in a democratic nation. Whether it was the wisdom that I gained in Africa or the events that happened while we were in Africa I have come home with the purpose of educating and encouraging people to vote and hope that one day in the near future our nation will be less divided.

Travel in Midlife is Transformational

Whether you're looking to step out of your comfort zone, seeking more mindful travel experiences, or simply want to travel with other midlife women, we hope Jolene and Janice's wisdom and personal experiences resonate with you. And we hope you’ll join us for a Rumblings travel adventure in the future! Stay tuned for more travel adventures in 2025 (hint: it may include Greece!). Don't forget to share your thoughts and where you’d like to travel in the comments below—let’s start a conversation!

Embrace the Power of Movement and Healthy Eating in Midlife

Do you struggle with exercise, physical activity, and healthy eating?

You’re not alone. Society has fed you narratives, and you’ve sometimes unknowingly taken on these stories as if they were your own, shaping your perceptions of movement and food. For midlife women, these narratives can be particularly limiting. It's time to rewrite these stories and embrace the joy and benefits of moving our bodies.

Challenging Old Movement Narratives

The number one reason women our age say they don’t like exercise is that they don’t want to sweat. But sweat is a sign of effort, strength, and vitality. You should embrace it, especially as you age. Being strong and fit is an identity worth portraying, and fit people show up sweaty and in their workout clothes!

Think back to a time before Title IX and what society told us about women exercising and being ‘healthy’ - which was all about being attractive and appealing:

- They’d build bulky muscles.

- It was terrible for their constitution.

- Women shouldn't exercise during pregnancy.

- Women are the ‘weaker sex.’

- Sweating is unattractive

- Women should eat like a bird

Even some recent media narratives about female athletes continue to perpetuate these outdated stories about women and fitness, and thankfully, that outdated and biased mentality is starting to change. For years, women were told not to lift weights and to focus exclusively on looking cute in leotards while doing cardio. Pioneers like Jack LaLanne emphasized muscle fitness for women. Still, many early fitness programs  - while terrific at getting women moving - focused solely on cardio and light exercises rather than strength training.

Challenging Old Food Narratives

At the same time, women often encounter outdated or restrictive narratives about healthy eating that can hinder their progress toward achieving their goals. Some of these narratives include:

• "Carbs are bad": The misconception that all carbohydrates are unhealthy can lead women to avoid nutrient-rich foods like whole grains, fruits, and vegetables.

• "Fat makes you fat": This outdated belief discourages the consumption of healthy fats, such as those found in avocados, nuts, and olive oil, which are essential for overall health.

• "Eat less to lose weight": The idea that drastically reducing calorie intake is the key to weight loss can lead to malnutrition and a slowed metabolism, ultimately making weight management more difficult.

• "Healthy eating is expensive": The perception that nutritious foods are always costly can prevent women from making healthier choices, even though many affordable options are available.

• "It's too late to change": The belief that changing what you eat in midlife won't significantly impact health can discourage women from adopting healthier eating habits.

• "Healthy eating is about deprivation": Associating healthy eating with restrictive diets can make it seem unappealing and unsustainable, leading to cycles of dieting and bingeing.

• "You need to detox": The idea that the body needs special detox diets or cleanses to be healthy can lead to extreme and unnecessary dietary practices.

Challenging these narratives with evidence-based information and promoting a balanced, enjoyable approach to healthy eating can help you make positive changes without feeling restricted or discouraged.

Redefining Your Narratives

Instead of dreading exercise and feeling overwhelmed about establishing a high-quality, nutrient-rich eating pattern to supply the fuel your body needs to move more, reset your mindset to prioritize the joy of movement. 

Your body has been through a lot and has taken you far. Movement is not something to dread; it’s something to embrace with excitement and anticipation! It’s powerful—being strong boosts confidence at any age. In middle age, it helps us become visible and vibrant. Healthful eating does not have to be overwhelming if you focus on the basics and block out the noise that villainizes certain foods or food groups.

You can age with strength instead of frailty, health instead of disease, and independence instead of dependence. You can do everything you envision with just a little effort. 

Remember, you are in training to live a strong and healthy life full of vitality, using your body to help you create a life where you flourish.

Healthy Eating & Moving are Best Friends

Alongside movement, healthy eating plays a crucial role in our well-being. Many women underestimate the amount of calories they consume and overestimate the amount of exercise they do. 

Moving your body more and building healthful eating patterns are essential for maintaining or losing weight while supporting your energy level and fitness as you age. Together, these two habits form a synergistic foundation that promotes vitality and longevity during this pivotal stage of life.  This knowledge empowers you to take control of your health and well-being.

Consider these questions:

• Are you eating enough food to sustain more physical activity and exercise? If you’re tired and lack energy to fuel your workouts, you might not be eating enough. 

• Are you consuming enough protein?

• Is your plate balanced?

• How is your food mindset? 

• Are you incorporating the 'Macros of Movement' throughout the week? Find a balanced mix of physical activity, stability/functional training, strength training, and cardio (moderate and vigorous). Avoid limiting your routine to just cardio or daily walks. Instead, add strength training and functional exercises to your regimen.

• Is your current movement pattern an intense cardio session 3-4 days a week for 30-45 minutes, followed by passive activities like working in front of a screen or reading? 

Making minor adjustments to your routine, like increasing physical activity and ensuring sufficient protein intake, can prevent gradual weight gain and help you stay physically strong and fit as you age and into your later years.

Practical Steps to Get Started

• Find Joy in Movement: Choose activities that you enjoy. Whether dancing, hiking, swimming, or yoga, find what makes you happy and keep moving.

• Strength Training: Incorporate strength training into your routine. It boosts metabolism, strengthens bones, and enhances muscle mass. It's particularly beneficial for midlife women as it can help counteract the natural loss of muscle mass that occurs with age, improving overall strength and mobility.

• Intentional Eating: Pay attention to what you eat. Opt for nutrient-dense foods that nourish your body and support your fitness goals. This balanced approach to eating will provide you with the necessary nutrients and support your fitness journey, reassuring you that you're on the right path.

• Stay Consistent: Move a regular part of your life. Consistency is critical to reaping the benefits of a healthy lifestyle.

• Build a Support System: Surround yourself with supportive friends and family who encourage your fitness journey.

Rewriting your relationship with exercise and healthy eating is essential for thriving in midlife. Embrace the power of movement and the benefits of a balanced eating pattern. You have the strength to age with vitality, confidence, and independence. Celebrate your body and the incredible things it can do. Normalize being strong at any size, and don’t shy away from sweating—even if it means showing up to appointments or lunch meetups in exercise gear. 

Rumblings Media has tools and resources to help guide you wherever you are on your health and wellness journey so you can thrive! 

Don’t know where to begin or wonder where you need to focus on adjusting your patterns? Join us in an upcoming online or in-person class to jump-start your plan!

We’re here to help—and to remind you that it is never too late to begin or review where you’re at. 

Start today, step into the identity of a strong, fit, and balanced-eating midlife woman, and flourish!

Embrace the Journey: Rediscover Purpose in Midlife

"What are you doing with your life?" It echoes through the corridors of our minds, haunting us like a persistent shadow. We remember asking ourselves this in college, maybe even later in our twenties. But life happened—kids, careers, responsibilities—and that question got buried beneath the hustle and bustle of everyday life.

Fast-forward to today, and here we are, a community of midlife women, each navigating a unique maze of caregiving duties, changing relationships, and evolving roles. The question resurfaces, taunting us with its insistent presence.

"What are you doing with your life?"

Reinvent Midlife

But this time, instead of feeling a surge of possibility, doubt creeps in. Is it too late to chase your dreams? Can you reinvent your life, find new purposes, and acquire new skills?

The answer is a resounding YES!

Yes, even if you're unsure. Yes, even if you don't have all the answers. Yes, even if the path ahead seems daunting. Why? Because you are wiser now than you've ever been. You've weathered storms, faced challenges, and emerged stronger and more resilient on the other side.

Rewrite Your Story

It's still possible to rewrite your story. This is just the beginning of a new chapter filled with endless and untapped possibilities. And the best part? You're not alone on this journey. 

As a community of midlife women, we are here to support and uplift each other.

Let's embrace uncertainty, fear, and the unknown together. Let's forge ahead with courage, curiosity, and a willingness to explore. Ultimately, what matters most is not where we've been but where we're going—and the incredible adventures that await us along the way.

Embrace Change

Midlife is a time of transition. It's a period marked by profound shifts in our lives, both internally and externally. As we navigate the complexities of aging parents, grown children, and changing careers, it's natural to question our place in the world and our purpose in life.

But amid the uncertainty, there lies an opportunity—to reinvent yourself, rediscover your passions, and pursue your dreams with renewed vigor. This is your chance to embrace change, lean into the discomfort, and emerge on the other side stronger, wiser, and more fulfilled than ever before. The potential for growth and fulfillment in this new chapter of life is immense and within your reach. It’s a time to reset your mindset and renew your vision to live vibrantly and purposely. 

Seek Fulfillment

Finding fulfillment in midlife is not about achieving some elusive ideal of success or happiness. It's about embracing the messy, imperfect journey of self-discovery and growth. It's about learning to appreciate the beauty of the present moment, even as you strive for a better tomorrow.

So, lean into the unknown with an open heart and mind. Trust in your ability to navigate life's twists and turns with grace and resilience. And remember that no matter where this journey takes you, you're never alone. 

Together, we can face whatever challenges come our way and emerge more robust and resilient than ever.

Now is the Time

Midlife is not the end of the road – it's a new beginning. It's a chance to reinvent yourself, pursue your passions, and live on your terms. So, embrace this opportunity with courage, curiosity, and a sense of adventure. Write the next chapter of your life with boldness and determination. 

Start creating your vision for this next chapter. Check out the following resources for support:

1. Overcoming Resistance to Achieve Your Vision: A Midlife Women’s Guide

2. Midlife Transitions and Challenges: A Call for a Renewed Vision

3. 90-Day Vision Journal: Create and Live the Life of Your Dreams

4. 52-Week Email Vision Course 

5. Check out our in-person midlife transformation classes.

Remember, the best you is about to bloom and flourish!

Embracing Technology: Redefining Aging for Midlife Women

As midlife women, we stand at the intersection of two worlds: one shaped by the experiences of our parent's generation and the other by the rapid technological advancements that have characterized our lives. In this pivotal moment, as we witness the challenges of aging through the lens of caregiving for our parents, we are compelled to reflect on technology's role in reimagining what it means to grow older.

The saying "You don't know what you've got until it's gone" resonates deeply as we witness the physical and cognitive changes that come with aging in our loved ones. Yet, unlike previous generations, we are fortunate to have access to an array of technological innovations that have the potential to transform the aging experience.

From wearable devices that monitor health metrics to smart home systems that enhance safety and independence, technology offers practical solutions to the challenges associated with aging. But beyond mere convenience, it also opens doors to new possibilities for how we conceive of aging and what it means to live a fulfilling life in later years.

Consider for a moment how technology can empower us to lead more vibrant, connected lives as we age. With the click of a button, we can access virtual communities that transcend geographic boundaries, fostering friendships and support networks that enrich our social lives. Through online learning platforms, we can pursue new interests and acquire new skills, challenging the notion that learning diminishes with age. And with telemedicine services, we can access quality healthcare from the comfort of our homes, promoting proactive wellness and early intervention.

However, the most profound shift technology enables is the opportunity to reinvent our lives and how we live them as we age. No longer bound by traditional notions of retirement or societal expectations, we can chart our course and pursue our passions with renewed vigor. Whether starting a new career, traveling the world, or embarking on creative endeavors, technology equips us with the tools to embrace life's possibilities at any age.

Indeed, the prospect of turning 80 or 90 seems more manageable when viewed through technology-enabled possibilities. Rather than simply accepting the limitations imposed by aging, you can aspire to be more youthful, adventurous, and engaged than ever before. 

Take the following actions to embrace technology and redefine the aging experience:

• Stay Informed: Regularly explore new technologies and advancements in aging care to stay abreast of options and possibilities.

• Engage in Lifelong Learning: Enroll in online courses or attend workshops to expand your skills and knowledge, embracing learning as a lifelong journey.

• Adopt Health Monitoring Technologies: Use wearable devices or apps to track your health metrics, empowering you to take proactive steps towards better health.

• Create a Connected Community: Foster relationships with other midlife women to share experiences, advice, and support, both online and offline.

• Experiment with Telehealth Services: Utilize telemedicine options to access healthcare conveniently and maintain regular check-ups and screenings.

• Explore Smart Home Solutions: Implement smart home devices to enhance safety, comfort, and independence as you age in place.

• Embrace New Adventures: Leverage technology to open up a world of new adventures and experiences, enriching your life and redefining how you approach aging. Use social media to curate a list of interesting new challenges and travel experiences to keep life exciting and fulfilling.

So, harness the power of technology to redefine aging on your terms. Embrace innovation as a means to cultivate resilience, foster connection, and unlock the full potential of your later years. Inspire future generations to reimagine what it means to grow older so that they may approach the journey of aging with hope, curiosity, and boundless possibility.

As you progress to the following decades, don’t be afraid to try new things or switch things up and live differently. The fabric of your life and your health age are not predetermined; they don’t need to be your destiny. You can make choices today that will impact how your life will play out as you age. 

Embracing Change: Empowering Midlife Women for Health and Vitality

We often hear from women that they feel too old to change their lives. For example, they wonder, "Am I too old for exercise to make a difference?” 

The answer is always a great, big, resounding “NO.” It’s never too late to make a difference in exercise and any other facet of life. Many women have successfully reinvented themselves after 50 and reignited change in many aspects of their lives.

Substantial evidence from intervention studies and observational research has demonstrated various positive health effects of making changes after 50, primarily related to physical activity in older populations. 

Here are ideas for areas where small changes can make a significant impact.

Make Social Connections:

Human connection is a fundamental pillar of well-being. Research consistently shows that solid emotional bonds contribute significantly to our overall health. Loneliness and isolation are not just feelings; they have tangible effects on our physical health, including increased risks of heart disease, stroke, and dementia. 

Building and nurturing meaningful relationships with friends, family, and community members is essential. Embrace opportunities for social engagement through group activities, faith communities, or neighborhood programs. These connections bring tremendous benefits for improving the quality of life. 

Create a New Vision:

Finding a purpose gives meaning to your life and fuels your motivation. 

Studies have shown that individuals with a clear sense of purpose tend to have lower mortality rates. 

Whether volunteering, pursuing a hobby, or helping others in need, identifying activities that align with your values and positively impact your well-being can significantly enhance your well-being. 

It is not uncommon too struggle and not know where to start finding your purpose. Walking through the steps to create a new vision for your life can help you reignite your purpose. Check out the resources we’ve developed to help you reinvigorate your life and change for good. 

Build Muscle:

Aging often brings a decline in muscle mass and strength, but it's not an inevitable consequence. Regular strength-training exercises can help mitigate muscle loss, improve balance, and reduce the risk of falls and injuries. 

Aim for at least two weekly sessions, focusing on exercises targeting major muscle groups. Remember to allow adequate rest between sessions to support muscle recovery. Check out this blog post to help understand how building muscle is one of the best exercises for defying the effects of aging. 

Protect Your Brain:

Dementia is a prevalent concern among aging adults, but research suggests that lifestyle factors play a significant role in prevention. 

Quitting smoking, exercising regularly, and adopting a heart-healthy diet can all contribute to brain health. Take proactive steps to safeguard your cognitive function and reduce the risk of age-related mental decline. Small lifestyle-related changes can make a big difference in lowering your risk for dementia. The impact is particularly profound during midlife. 

Eat a Balanced Diet (Protein, Plus Nuts!):

The foundation of healthy aging starts with nutrition. It’s time to ditch the fad diets and instead eat a balanced diet that includes a variety of nutrient-rich foods. 

Focus on incorporating lean proteins, whole grains, fruits, vegetables, and healthy fats into your meals. Limit sugar intake, opt for natural sources of sweetness, and avoid sugary beverages. Consider including nuts like walnuts in your diet, which have been linked to improved cardiac function and overall health. Many midlife women struggle to get adequate protein, but we share how small changes can make a significant difference in this blog.  

Support Your Caregiving Friends:

Almost every midlife woman we know is a caregiver. For caregivers, the importance of self-care cannot be overstated. Providing care for a loved one can be physically, emotionally, and financially taxing. 

As a caregiver, you must prioritize your well-being and seek support when needed. 

While new programs that aim to address the needs of caregivers and improve the quality of life for caregivers and their loved ones are becoming available, there are still far too few of them. 

In the meantime, take time for yourself and acknowledge the struggles of caregiving with your friends, family, and acquaintances. You are not alone. 

As a midlife woman, you possess the resilience and wisdom to navigate aging challenges gracefully. By embracing these small yet impactful changes, you can empower yourself to lead a vibrant, fulfilling life well into the future. 

Remember, it's never too late to prioritize your health and well-being—it's a journey worth embarking on, one step at a time.

Empower Your Midlife Journey: The Art of Vision Creation and Goal Setting

As another year is underway, you may already have a waning interest in their New Year's resolutions. You reflected on the past year, acknowledged areas where you want to improve, and set ambitious goals for the future. 

While this tradition is well-intentioned, it often leaves people feeling discouraged and disheartened by mid-February. So, what's the secret to making lasting changes and reinventing your life to flourish in midlife? It all starts with a shift in mindset from resolutions to creating a vision and setting goals for how you get there (your future).

Creating a new vision begins with evaluating your identity. What type of persona best describes the person you want to be? This identity is not just about setting goals but redefining who you are and what you stand for. A shift in mindset propels you towards your vision for life. When you think about it, every goal we set is fundamentally about becoming someone different, someone better, someone more aligned with our aspirations.

Your vision is to become a healthier, more active individual. Setting specific health and fitness goals is a crucial step, but it's equally essential to embody the identity of a healthy, active person. You're not just chasing a goal; you're becoming a "fit" person who prioritizes your health, makes mindful choices, and enjoys an active lifestyle.

Your identity, the beliefs you hold about yourself, is the foundation for your goals and vision. When you genuinely believe you are that person, your actions become natural extensions of your identity. You don't just exercise because it's on your to-do list; you do it because it's part of who you are. So, in your journey towards a fulfilling vision, remember that crafting a new identity is the linchpin that makes the entire process more seamless and sustainable.

Here are several tips inspired by Atomic Habits author James Clear and his approach to changing your identity and vision:

• Start with Small Votes for YOU: Implement small, manageable habits that align with your desired identity. These microchanges may seem insignificant individually, but they collectively shape your self-image over time.

• Focus on Consistency Over Intensity: Focus on consistency with your new habits rather than pushing for immediate, dramatic changes. Consistency reinforces your identity and builds momentum.

• Create Identity Statements: Create affirmative "I am" statements that reflect your desired identity. Repeat these statements daily to reinforce your self-image. For example, "I am a healthy and active person."

• Surround Yourself: Surround yourself with people who embody the identity you're striving for. Their influence and support can reinforce your commitment to change.

• Visualize Your Ideal Self: Spend time visualizing your ideal self, living your desired vision. This mental rehearsal can strengthen your belief in your new identity.

• Journal: Write about your progress, reflecting on how your new habits align with your vision. This journaling practice can deepen your connection to your evolving identity. We’ve made it easy for you to create the life of your dreams with our 90-Day Vision Journal.

• Learn Continuously: Seek knowledge and skills related to your desired identity. The process of learning and growth reinforces your sense of self.

• Embrace Setbacks: Understand that setbacks are a natural part of change. Instead of viewing them as failures, see them as opportunities to refine your identity and vision.

• Celebrate Milestones: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements along the way. Each milestone reinforces your new identity and motivates you to keep moving forward.

• Establish a Feedback Loop: This will help you assess your progress and adjust as needed regularly. This continuous improvement cycle helps maintain alignment with your vision.

If you want additional feedback and encouragement, consider our email course. Our year-long Vision Course guides you through setting your vision and weekly exercises to practice living your desires. By the end of the course, you will have done the work to ensure your desired changes stick and can be sustained. Don’t pass up this opportunity to finally live the life you desire, not just think and dream about it! 

As a midlife woman, you have the wisdom and experience to make profound life changes. Rather than making fleeting New Year's resolutions, embrace the power of embodying the persona of the identity of an individual who already does the behaviors you desire to do and create a compelling vision for your future. With a clear purpose and the determination to follow your roadmap, you can reinvent your life and flourish in midlife. 

Remember, it's not about perfection but progress, and your journey is worth celebrating every step of the way. It requires patience and commitment, and we can help! By implementing these tips and staying true to your desired identity, you can gradually reshape your life in line with your vision. 

Embracing Joy and Sorrow: A New Year's Resolution to Open Your Heart

As we approach the holidays and the end of the year, many of us reflect on the past and contemplate resolutions for the New Year. It's a time to assess unachieved goals, revise previous aspirations, or set new ones. At this mid-stage of life, the holiday season takes on a unique significance – for some, it's a bustling time filled with family and festivities, while for others, it may become quieter and more introspective.

In my (Karyn) reflections this year, I've been pondering one of my meaningful traditions – choosing a guiding word for the upcoming year. With its mix of excitement and poignant memories, Christmas catalyzes contemplating the ebb and flow of joy and sorrow in our lives. 

This year, I am embarking on a new tradition: embracing joy and sorrow and carrying this duality into the New Year with an open heart. My chosen word for the upcoming year is "openhearted," a conscious decision to live a life of joy, zest, and full experiences.

The journey began with a practice inspired by the ancestral altars I encountered during a trip to Vietnam, a tangible reminder of the love, wisdom, and the inevitable grief that comes with loss. Creating an altar for my ancestors becomes a way to honor their legacy and acknowledge the void left by their absence, providing a bridge between past and present. If this interests you, reading more about deepening your connection with your ancestors may be helpful. 

In addition to honoring my ancestors and facing the grief of missing them during the holiday season, I’m working to cultivate joy and openness. I've introduced a daily practice I call the "Remembrance of the Beloved." Like a gratitude journal, this practice involves reflecting on cherished memories, people, places, or items that evoke joy. The deliberate use of the term "beloved" adds weight and texture to the things I hold dear, making this practice a powerful exercise in mindfulness. I’ve written down my beloved item or memory and its significance each day in my Rumblings ‘beloved journal.’ 

Often viewed as a solitary and private experience, grief has the transformative potential to deepen your capacity to hold both sorrow and suffering. Rather than attempting to transcend or escape grief, I advocate for facing it head-on, creating a spaciousness within ourselves to accommodate the weight of sorrow. Our culture's tendency to stifle grief can lead to a narrow aperture for empathy and compassion, preventing us from fully engaging with the suffering in the world.

By befriending grief and acknowledging its continuous presence, you open yourself to healing. Grief is not something to overcome but a companion to walk alongside, shaping an ongoing relationship with your soul and the world around you. This companionship with grief becomes a source of warmth, kindness, care, and compassion, enriching your internal life.

In avoiding or minimizing grief, your heart risks closure, limiting your ability to address both personal and global suffering. Recognizing that you also keep your heart open to joy by welcoming grief is crucial. The vulnerability inherent in facing grief allows you to connect with others more deeply, fostering meaningful relationships and a sense of shared humanity.

As I age, I have realized that strength alone does not sustain me, as it fails to address the emptiness within. In embracing my vulnerabilities, I’ve rediscovered my connection to the common threads of humanity. The actual work is not merely to seek happiness but to fully embrace the richness of being alive.

 My 2024 word — openheartedness—will be my guide, and the work is my daily practice of honoring my ancestors and celebrating the beloved treasures that bring me joy. 

When you find the spaciousness in your heart to accommodate joy and sorrow, you can create harmony and authenticity this holiday season and carry this openness into the New Year. 

Join me in the journey towards a more openhearted and fulfilling life.

I’ll leave you with a few lines from Friedrich Nietzsche, the German philosopher, about the meaning of life that accommodates this duality. ‘As deeply as man sees into life, he also sees into suffering.’ ‘Was that life? Well then! Once more!’

Pick your word(s) for the upcoming year with our guide. By setting words, you become more intentional about how you want to live your life, which helps you be more successful in living well and reaching your goals.

Unlock A Renewed You: The Power of Short-Term Health Challenges for Lasting Habits

In November, I (Rebecca) competed in a 21-day challenge at the yoga studio I attend. The challenge was to participate in 21 classes in 21 days. You could miss a day, but you had to make it up on another day.  Given that I had just gotten back into yoga after years away, I imagined this would be a motivating way to reignite my attendance. 

Not only did I successfully finish the challenge, I tried new classes I wouldn’t have tried otherwise, met new people, and had fun. The consistency also helped me improve my flexibility and feel better overall. 

I have to admit I have a love-hate relationship with short-term challenges.  On the one hand, they can be motivating. On the other hand, because they are designed for a limited period, it’s easy to make significant behavior changes, only to slip back into old behaviors when the challenge is over. Also, some challenges promote unsustainable behavior changes that don’t help support a long-term healthful lifestyle. However, understanding your goal for participating in a challenge can be a great way to kick-start a new routine and reap other benefits.

At Rumblings, we’ve conducted challenges like our 31-Day Commit to Connect Challenge, Move in May Challenge, 7-Day National Send a Card to a Friend Challenge, and Fruit and Veggie Challenge to kick-start a behavior change and reap benefits. We also have produced resources like our 90-Day Protein and Vision Journals to help women do the daily work to build healthier lifestyles.

The concept of a 21-day health challenge is often rooted in the idea that it takes approximately 21 days to form a new habit.

While the exact duration for habit formation varies among individuals, participating in a time-limited health challenge can help you:

• Kickstart Healthier Choices: A short-term challenge can jumpstart a healthier habit. It provides an opportunity to break free from unhealthy routines and kickstart positive changes in areas like eating healthier, increasing movement, and prioritizing self-care. Make sure that any challenge you undertake promotes a change you can maintain over time. 

• Increase Awareness: Participating in a challenge helps you to become more aware of your lifestyle choices, including dietary habits, physical activity levels, and overall wellness. This heightened awareness can lead to more informed and healthier decision-making.

• Experience Quick Results: A short-term challenge can yield noticeable results within a relatively brief timeframe. It can motivate and reinforce the positive impact of your choices, helping you stay committed to your goals.

• Build Accountability and Community: Challenges often come with a built-in support system, whether through a group, online community, or accountability partner. The shared commitment and encouragement from others can boost motivation and help you stay accountable to your health goals.

• Gain Momentum: Completing a short-term health challenge creates a sense of accomplishment and builds positive momentum. The momentum you create can be leveraged to tackle more ambitious health and wellness goals over the long term.

• Change Behaviors: The challenge can prompt you to modify your behavior.  Whether quitting a bad habit, adopting a new workout routine, or improving nutrition, a time-limited structure helps you focus on one change.

• Enhanced Discipline: A challenge period can support you in building consistency, discipline, and routine in sticking to your health-related commitments. A 21-day challenge is sufficient time to establish a routine. Routines provide structure and make it easier to incorporate healthy practices into your daily life consistently.

• Take a risk: A challenge can be the spark you need to try something you’ve been thinking about but haven’t yet committed. It’s that nudge to take the first step. 

It's important to note that the effectiveness of a time-limited health challenge can vary depending on individual preferences, goals, and the specific nature of the challenge. Sustainable, long-term health improvements often require ongoing commitment beyond the initial challenge period, but a challenge could be the spark you need to get started.

You don’t have to wait for someone else to host a challenge.

Consider challenging yourself to an end-of-year 21- or 30-day challenge like:

• Getting 10,000 steps a day

• Abstaining from alcohol

• Getting to bed at 10:00 p.m. every night

• Meditating for 10 minutes every day

• Stretching before bed

• Eating a minimum of 25 grams of fiber a day

• Getting a minimum of 30 grams of protein at every meal 

• Limiting your screen time to 60-minutes or less each day

Think about a habit you’ve been hoping to change. Create a time-limited personal challenge to reignite a healthier habit as you enter the new year. A couple of additional tips are to make it something relatively easy, specific in terms of what you will do on a particular day time, and in a pre-determined manner. There is no reason to wait another 30 days to get started. Now is the perfect time to challenge yourself and start the year on a new and improved path. 

Unlocking the Secrets to Aging Gracefully

Aging is an inevitable part of life, but it doesn't mean we must surrender to its effects without a fight. We have a choice in how we age; one powerful way to make that choice is through functional training. 

In this blog post, we'll define functional training and review its importance in mitigating the physiological effects of aging and how it can help you maintain the energy and vitality of someone years younger. Whether you're new to the concept of muscle fitness or looking to enhance your existing routine, this guide will provide valuable insights into aging gracefully.

What is functional training?

As we journey through the inevitable aging process, we face a crucial decision: 

1) accept it and let nature take its course, or 

2) fight it. 

The right exercise program can be a formidable ally in the battle against aging. It can deliver numerous benefits that minimize the physical toll of aging, allowing us to maintain the vigor and vitality of our younger selves. And functional training plays a role. Functional training is a type of exercise designed to train the body for activities of daily living. 

The functional training approach

Functional training is evolving, and exercising as we age can empower us with the strength and energy needed to fully enjoy life's activities and prepare for a healthier future. Instead of obsessing over the mirror and the scale, it's time to prioritize overall physical fitness. Every workout can be a magic pill that extends your life's length and quality.

To help make it easier for you to get started with functional training, we’ve included links to some of our favorite tools and equipment. 

1. Mobility and Flexibility Training - Mobility and flexibility training focus on coordinating body movements through space. This helps prevent common musculoskeletal injuries associated with aging, such as sore knees, aching backs, and general discomfort. By incorporating mobility training, you'll keep your muscles and joints healthy and mobile, paving the way for an active lifestyle as you age.

2. Strength and Power Training - Aging often leads to muscle mass loss and decreased functional muscle capacity. Strength training is the key to combating this age-related muscle atrophy. Additionally, power training enhances your muscle's ability to generate force quickly, which is essential for daily activities and preventing falls. Both strength and power are crucial for healthy aging.

Foundational Movement Patterns 

There are six foundational patterns of movement for mobility training and strength/power training. Whether doing mobility training or strength/power training, focus on these principal movement types:

• Hip Hinge – Hinge at the hip with both feet planted. The movement begins from the hip and has little involvement from the knees. Think of picking up a large empty box from the floor and bending from the hip instead of at the knees.

• Squat – both feet planted, movement begins at the hips but includes bending and straightening the knees. Think of lifting a box up off the floor with your legs.

• Single Leg patterns – It could mean exercises balancing on one leg at a time or having one foot in front of the other but still shoulder distance apart. Many lower body exercises can be done from this stance.

• Push – Pushing an object away from your body – either forward or overhead. Think of a plank, bench press, or pushup.

• Pull – Pulling an object towards you – either forward or overhead. Think of a pull-up or tug-of-war.

• Rotation – Rotation movements combine pulling and pushing motions involving both upper and lower body segments, where the pelvis rotates. Think of the action of chopping wood or an overhand serve in tennis, where your arms or upper body cross the plane of the front of the body.

Start Your Journey with Mobility Training

Incorporating these movement patterns into your training regimen is essential for achieving a well-rounded and functional capacity as you age.

Begin your fitness journey by prioritizing mobility training. This foundational step ensures you develop balanced physical abilities and functional capacity, setting the stage for a healthier and more active life as you age.

Mobility training should be a fundamental part of your routine, encompassing activities like stretching and connective tissue work with tools such as foam rollers, therapy balls, stability balls, and therapy bands. Three effective approaches to integrating mobility training into your regimen are bedtime stretches, Pilates, gentle yoga, and incorporating the use of props. These practices enhance mobility and provide a dual benefit by simultaneously strengthening your body. Whether you're new to exercise or an experienced enthusiast, these methods suit everyone.

Consistency matters. Even when a full workout seems daunting, allocating some time to mobility work, especially through stretching, is crucial. This effort contributes to preserving your muscles' and joints' health and flexibility. You'll be surprised at how spending as little as 15 minutes each day or incorporating brief stretch breaks into your daily routine can significantly affect your movement patterns and overall physical skills. Journaling your activity and scheduling it into your calendar is an excellent way to help you kickstart a new behavior. 

Once you've established a solid foundation in mobility, it's time to incorporate strength and power training.

Level up with Strength and Power Training

After establishing a solid foundation in mobility, it's time to take your fitness journey to the next level by introducing strength and power training into your routine.

Unleash the Benefits of Strength Training: Strength training offers many advantages, especially for midlife women. Notably, the results become apparent relatively quickly, with nearly any exercise involving weights or just your body weight leading to noticeable improvements in strength. The beauty of strength training lies in its versatility, providing you with a diverse range of workout options to keep your routine fresh and engaging.

Crafting Your Strength Routine: Begin your strength journey by incorporating strengthening exercises into your routine at least twice a week. Gradually, as your strength improves, consider increasing your training frequency to three or four sessions per week. You can kickstart your journey with bodyweight exercises. Still, as you progress, you may want to use various equipment like dumbbells, resistance bands, gym machines, or even barbells and heavier weights.

Dive into Specific Strength Patterns: For midlife women, it's crucial to include specific strength patterns in your training regimen. You can either integrate some of these patterns into each workout session or dedicate specific days to focus on each pattern individually. This adaptability ensures that you can maintain high motivation levels and continually challenge yourself as you become a healthier and stronger version of yourself.

• Unilateral Training: Unilateral training involves using only one arm or leg during an exercise. This type of training enhances the strength of the specific limb being worked and has an interesting side effect: research indicates that it can boost the strength of the opposite limb. Additionally, unilateral training contributes to core strength, stabilizing the spine and pelvis. This helps prevent muscle imbalances and enhances overall stability, vital for maintaining a healthy body as we age. The rationale behind this approach is rooted in the fact that many of our daily movements primarily engage one arm or leg at a time. Unilateral training exercises are often performed using dumbbells or kettlebells.

• Resistance Training: While all the discussed exercises contribute to strength improvement, resistance training takes a more intense approach. It focuses on using heavier weights and simultaneously engages the entire body or both limbs. For example, exercises like squatting with a weighted bar or performing bench presses fall under this category. The primary objective of resistance training is to develop the capability to lift heavier objects, thereby increasing overall strength. To achieve this goal, working with heavier weights is essential.

• Power Training: Power training is an often overlooked aspect of fitness, particularly for midlife women. Our bodies contain different muscle fibers, including slow-twitch and fast-twitch fibers. Fast-twitch fibers are responsible for explosive movements and are critical in enhancing the resilience of elastic tissues and ligaments. These areas are commonly associated with injuries and muscle strains. Unfortunately, age-related muscle loss often leads to a decline in fast-twitch fibers. These fibers are essential for preventing falls or reacting quickly, such as jumping out of obstacles or even leaping over small obstacles like puddles. Incorporating explosive movements into your routine can stimulate the development of these fast-twitch muscle fibers. Starting with small activities like brief bouts of skipping, hopping from one foot to the other, or even hopscotch can be an excellent starting point. Gradually progress to more challenging activities, such as jumping onto a box or platform or engaging in medicine ball slams or throws, possibly with a workout partner. Incorporating power training can enhance your ability to react swiftly and effectively, which is especially valuable as you age.

The Importance of Muscle Fitness

Just as aerobic exercise enhances heart health, muscle fitness exercises strengthen and improve skeletal muscles, enhancing your ability to move. Studies show that adults who engage in twice-weekly strength training reduce their mortality risk. Beyond health benefits, functional training adds quality to your years, ensuring you can enjoy your favorite activities for longer.

Aging may be inevitable, but how we age is within our control. Embrace functional training as a powerful tool to age gracefully, maintain vitality, and enjoy life fully. Incorporating mobility, strength, and power training into your routine will unlock the secrets to healthy aging. 

For more information and sample exercises, check out "Ageless Intensity" by Pete McCall, a valuable resource on this transformative journey. Embrace the 'silver bullet' of movement and enhance your cognitive function while adding quality to your years.

Embracing the Unpredictable: Navigating Health Scares and Prioritizing Wellness in Midlife

By the time we've reached midlife, we've most likely experienced a health crisis, either ours or someone’s very close to us, and lost people we’ve known well and loved.

Yet, no matter where we are on the health continuum, a crisis is always a shock, especially if it’s our own

The reality is modifiable risk factors are largely responsible for the leading causes of death. And many of the risk factors are preventable years and even decades before a diagnosis. There is a LOT of research (and a lot of speculation) about how to delay the onset of disease by engaging in healthy habits. However, many people feel their risk is more due to aging than how they choose to live.

The common perception of an inevitable decline and marginal health towards the end of life is evolving and, in our opinion, is outdated! We talk about the 'how tos' for living longer and better as we age at Rumblings.  

As a registered and licensed dietitian and an exercise physiologist, we practice what we recommend to others. We're on this aging journey too. Our aim has always been to distill the science into understandable and actionable recommendations to help you improve your aging journey. We want to help women differentiate between personal health recommendations (e.g., I lost weight; therefore, I am an expert), beliefs of self-professed wellness experts (e.g., I took a 30-hour class to get a coaching certificate), and true research-based recommendations to cut through the confusion, improve health, and prevent risk factors for disease.

We're not perfect. I (Karyn) secretly love salty chips and crackers and love cheese. But I enjoy them in moderation. We're focused on creating a strategy and plan for our health and prioritizing behaviors necessary to increase our health span. 

Our intent is not only to delay death but to push off disease from the so-called four Horsemen (cancer, cardiovascular disease, metabolic dysfunction, neurodegenerative declines) and improve the quality of our lives as we age. Who doesn’t want to feel great, move pain-free, and engage fully in life until we die?

I was recently reminded, however, that all the awareness, diligence, and healthy habits in the world don't make us immune to experiencing health scares. A few months ago, I was flagged for having an abnormality in my blood via a screening done to donate plasma. It was a fluke because this serum protein electrophoresis (SPEP) is not typically done as part of a routine exam in the United States.

I felt great, and all my typical wellness checks – and a few additional tests I requested – had been at optimal levels for health. Although I'm not thin, I require no regular medications. After completing several other tests, including a CT scan and bone marrow biopsy (sedation during the procedure made it pain-free), I was determined to have monoclonal gammopathy of undetermined significance (MGUS for short), a precursor for multiple myeloma. 

Multiple myeloma is terminal cancer with no treatment, and the standard treatment is to treat the effects of cancer. These effects are often the first indication an individual might have this type of cancer. Multiple myeloma is one of the rarer cancers, with no modifiable risk factors other than possibly obesity, but the number of individuals with the diagnosis is increasing worldwide.

As someone who is a “worried well” individual, there is a processing and reckoning required to accept that, occasionally, our health is out of our control. There is no lifestyle behavior to be modified, no treatment or pharmacological intervention to improve the situation, and nothing that could have prevented this from happening to me. It wasn't easy to grapple with.  

Confirmation that I have MGUS, a precursor, and not cancer, was a huge relief. I may never progress into multiple myeloma, but thankfully, I now have the baseline of all of my measures from my test results and can monitor any progression along the continuum of conditions that are precursors to multiple myeloma.

It was also a good reminder that as pristine as we may be with our health, there are some things over which we have no control. Rather than let it all go and live la vida loca, I have re-evaluated my approach to my health and wellness. I want to share it; in case it might be helpful for anyone else who finds themselves in a similar situation.

I have changed my mindset to think about my lifestyle behaviors as self-care. Good health is not only the absence and prevention of disease but also about building a 'reserve' of good health in case I get sick. 

Here is what that means for me and links to previous blog posts if you want to understand a topic further.

- I engage in exercise and physical fitness that feels like play, but I also choose activities that allow me to spend time in nature. I've always found joy in moving my body because I can – no matter what that looks like at any given moment. 

- I eat healthfully, including choosing plants, hitting protein targets, monitoring calorie intake, and focusing on whole foods.

- I limit alcohol consumption. Research suggests there may be no healthy intake levels for some individuals, and consuming too much may increase cancer risk.

- I am  extra vigilant with scheduling and staying current with my preventive exams and screenings

- I'm encouraging all my midlife friends (especially all of you) to ask their providers to include a SPEP or CBC test as part of their routine blood work at their next preventive exam.

- I got a bone density exam. The results provide information beyond just understanding the risk for osteoporosis. One of the initial signs of multiple myeloma for many people is vertebral compression fractures. This situation is exacerbated if your bone density is less than optimal.

This is my list based on my current health status. I encourage you to renew your focus on joy and vitality, whatever that looks like for you. Health is more than your test results and screening numbers. It's about creating memories with those you love and experiencing the joy of being healthy to live it as fully as possible.

Too often, as we age, we look to the past without recognizing that the best way to stay young is to look toward the future. 

A wise friend once told me that time is short and the world is big. There are dreams I've yet to finish, and many I still need to start living. My spirit is young, and I want to put in the effort to make sure my body stays young, even as I age.

Here's to life! Such a gift I will not waste.

You can find out more about multiple myeloma and its precursors here.

Lasting Change Unleashed: Discover Essential Techniques to Overcome Challenges and Create a Supportive Environment

Are you ready to shake things up and live midlife to the fullest but feel stuck and confused about where to start? 

We understand that feeling. It can be frustrating, especially when you may not recognize your midlife body, feel your career needs an overhaul, desire to live more vibrantly than your current friend group or feel like you’re living day-to-day without a plan. 

But here’s the good news: you’re different from many other women because you’re ready to make lasting changes.                     

And guess what? It’s possible to change your behaviors and sustain those changes. 

Renewed Vision: Setting the Foundation for Behavior Change

Let’s talk about the key to long-term change—shifting your identity. In case you missed it, we’ve shared the importance of creating a renewed vision for yourself in midlife. Now, that might sound daunting, but before you jump into action—new diets, exercise programs, wellness routines, or sleep protocols—only to slip back into old patterns again, here’s the secret: you need to see yourself as the person who eats well, moves daily, makes healthier choices, and prioritizes sleep BEFORE you take any action. Establishing a renewed vision for yourself is crucial because that’s where many women fail to sustain their desired behaviors for the long term. 

Reduce Friction: Assess and Modify Your Surroundings

Next, you must alleviate the friction to change before you take action. This involves assessing your work, home, school, social, and community environments and asking yourself if they support the desired changes. 

The goal is to make healthier choices easier choices. Too often, we face obstacles like tempting television programs, social media distractions, processed foods that are readily available, and a lack of time that hinders us from making choices that make us feel better, boost our energy, and help us flourish. 

To assess your surroundings, focus on the following:

1. People you spend the most time with

2. The places you frequent, such as work, home, school, church, and community

3. Your systems, like your routines and time management

4. The policies at work or in other organizations you’re involved with

Now, take a moment to reflect: do these people, places, systems, and policies support your values and goals? Do they create friction or resistance when you try to change? For example, does your workspace encourage standing instead of sitting all day? Do your workplace policies allow walking meetings and working out during lunch? Are your friends cheering you on or scoffing at the changes you want to make? Do your routines and habits align with your renewed vision?

Our environment often doesn’t naturally support how we want to live as we age. To ensure success, we must address the potential friction and resistance before taking action toward our goals. 

Observing Successful Example: Prioritizing Health and Well-being

By observing our surroundings, we can get a glimpse of what’s prioritized. Take our recent trip to Vietnam, for instance. During our visit, we noticed that health and well-being were community priorities: 

1. Parks were equipped with adult exercise equipment.

2. People were doing tai chi and stretching in green space.

3. Fruit was served after every meal instead of dessert. 

4. Restaurants served fresh, local food in a family-style manner. 

We found it easier to make healthier choices while traveling in Vietnam than it can be when traveling in the United States.

Modifying Your Surroundings: Making Healthier Choices Easier

Now consider some questions to help you modify your surroundings and better support your goals: 

1. What are one or two things you change in your environment that will help make healthier choices more available and easier to access? For example, can you keep healthier food choices more accessible at home so you can grab them on the go? 

2. What adjustments can you make to your routines to align them with your goals? For example, can you keep sneakers in the car so that you can walk while waiting during pick-up times or in between errands?

3. Can you spend more time with people who support your desire to change rather than resist it? For example, instead of connecting with friends over drinks and a meal, can you meet them for a walk or a yoga class?

4. Can you advocate for changes in work, school, or church policies to make healthier choices easier for you and those around you? For example, can you advocate ending meetings a few minutes early to allow for time to take a walking break or grab a healthy snack?

Embracing Sustainable Behavior Change: The Journey to Midlife Transformation

Starting a new behavior is often easier than sustaining it over time. Why? Our surroundings create resistance that pulls us back into old habits. Before taking action toward your goals, start by assessing your environment.

It’s time to get off the roller coaster and finally live your midlife vision! Creating a supportive environment will make your goals easier to achieve and sustain! 

Looking for more ways to build skills to help you successfully change behaviors? Read our suggestions for building resiliency in midlife.

Exploring Vietnam: Discoveries, Courage, and Heartfelt Conversations

Tam Coc, Ninh Binh Province, Vietnam

There are many thoughts to explore in a recap of our recent women’s trip to Vietnam. There are many things to choose from, including the fantastic food, the hospitality of the people, the culture of Vietnam, the benefits of traveling with women, and the differences in women's lives in a more restrictive society.

 It’s tough to choose just one aspect to focus on when recounting our two-week trip. From facing our deepest fears head-on to forming heartfelt connections that transcended language barriers, we discovered the true power of travel. 

 Here are the valuable insights we gained about ourselves and the world around us as we traveled across this fascinating nation in our first Rumblings Midlife Women’s trip to Vietnam. 

Embracing Courage: Conquering Fears Together

 Embarking on our women’s trip to Vietnam, 10 of us set forth with diverse expectations and our own self-defined personal boundaries.  We can look back and laugh at this now, but some of us were hesitant about trying unfamiliar foods, while others had reservations about hopping on motorbikes or holding snakes (yep, you read that right!) But you know what? By the end of the trip, we had each shattered some, if not all, of our self-imposed limits one by one, surprising even ourselves. 

We became masters of embracing change, diving headfirst into new experiences, and cheering each other on like a group of fearless daredevils. The phrase “I’ll try if you try it first” became our motto, and let us be clear, it was uttered more times than we can count! 

We felt a rush when we conquered our fears together. It ignited a spark, making us braver and more eager to explore the unknown. We realized that the things we feared were often not scary. Crossing a street without traffic signs and amidst hundreds of motorbikes? Piece of cake!

Imagine a group of midlife women, each with her unique background and perspective, coming together to face their fears head-on. It was an incredible display of collective courage and support. We found strength in unity, and it made all the difference. 

We discovered that embracing change and conquering our fears wasn’t just a personal triumph — it was an empowering journey that brought us closer as friends and transformed us in ways we never expected. Stepping outside our comfort zones became addictive, and we couldn’t wait to tackle the next unfamiliar challenge. 

 In a country as vibrant and captivating as Vietnam, we realize that genuine growth comes when we dare to step beyond what's familiar. Our journey was about more than just visiting popular tourist spots; it was about embracing the rich culture and immersing ourselves in the beauty of the unknown.

We formed an unbreakable bond, supporting and encouraging each other every step of the way. We learned to trust ourselves and each other, and that trust became the foundation for our incredible adventures.

Heartfelt Connections: Beyond Language Barriers

Here's the thing about Vietnam: it's not just the breathtaking landscapes and delicious food that will leave you in awe—it's the people. During our trip, we were lucky enough to witness the genuine hospitality and open-heartedness of the Vietnamese people, and let me tell you - it touched our souls in ways we never expected.

Now, how did we connect with locals when there was a language barrier? Well, that's the beauty of heartfelt connections—they transcend words. The shared smiles, the warmth in their eyes, and the gestures of kindness spoke volumes.

We met incredible individuals along our journey, like Ms. Dinh, a gracious woman who opened her home to us, sharing a meal, her life experiences, and stories. We bonded with motorbike drivers who proudly shared their family histories and tales of village life. Even young children and teenagers welcomed us with open arms, excited to connect with us, capture moments, and share them on their social media platforms. Kids really are the same everywhere, aren't they?

Ms. Dinh, outside of her home in Hanoi, Vietnam

But one of the most unexpected connections came from a simple encounter with a seamstress. As she took our measurements for custom silk pajamas, we discovered a shared experience. Our mothers were seamstresses, and despite the continents separating us, we realized how similar our lives and memories were. It was a profound moment of connection that transcended language and cultural barriers.

Forgiveness and Kindness: Unveiling the Boundless Humanity in Vietnam

What struck us the most was the concept of Ubuntu—the belief that humanity is bound together through hospitality, generosity, and compassion. 

Despite coming from different backgrounds, the Vietnamese people exemplified these qualities in their interactions with us and each other. Whether we needed an interpreter or relied on gestures and smiles, the locals opened their hearts to us. They welcomed us into their world, allowing us to see Vietnam through their eyes. From Hanoi to Ho Chi Minh (or Saigon, as it's lovingly called), we witnessed the beauty of a culture that values human connection above all else.

It's worth mentioning that Vietnamese drivers honk their horns not out of anger but to create awareness. It's a small detail that speaks volumes about their helpful nature and willingness to assist one another. We even witnessed a traffic accident, and the way everyone came together to help the motorbike rider was truly inspiring. It's these moments of kindness and solidarity that remind us of the power of humanity.

Exploring Vietnam’s Hidden Gems: Unforgettable Off-The-Beaten-Path Adventures

Now, let's talk about the best-kept secrets of our trip—the experiences that took us off the beaten path and allowed us to discover the true essence of Vietnam. 

These hidden gems were the highlights of our adventure, giving us a taste of local life and immersing us in the heart and soul of the country.

Picture yourself sitting in a local coffee shop, sipping traditional coffee with condensed milk over ice, a concoction known as Cà Phê Sữa Đá. The locals would happily show you the ropes, ensuring you experience this caffeinated delight to the fullest.

Or imagine strolling through a countryside road and stumbling upon a wayside rest, complete with hammocks, cold beer, and locally grown nuts and fruits. 

We couldn't resist picking fresh herbs and indulging in juicy mangoes and passion fruit.

We also had the privilege of exploring a food market with a local chef, indulging in delicious tofu that melted in our mouths—a far cry from what we usually find back home.

But one of our most cherished memories was sharing a heartfelt meal in a village, prepared with love and enjoyed by a local family. It was a true embodiment of the Vietnamese spirit of togetherness and community.

Nurturing Bonds and Culinary Delights: Building Community Through Food in Vietnam

The food in Vietnam was a culinary adventure like no other. We started with some hesitation, unsure of what to expect, but as the trip progressed, we became increasingly brave in our gastronomic explorations. We tried dishes we had never even dreamed of before, and it was a journey of flavors and tastes that delighted our senses.

Vietnam is a paradise for food lovers. The variety of fruits, vegetables, spices, and local delicacies is mind-boggling. Everything is incredibly fresh, sourced locally, and prepared with love. We savored each bite and marveled at the creativity and inventiveness of Vietnamese cuisine.

As we returned to our standard Western fare after the trip, we felt a culture shock and a longing for the vibrant flavors we had grown accustomed to. We yearned for another bowl of Pho or a refreshing Saigon beer from a local market or food stand.

Sharing family-style meals became a highlight of our trip because of the incredible food and the memories and connections we forged over those communal dining experiences. We learned to eat like locals, embracing the chopsticks and savoring each dish with delight. And each meal was accompanied by sharing our daily highlights (our 'roses'), what we were looking forward to (our 'buds'), and even our least favorite moments of the day (our 'thorns'). And let's not forget the lively toasts we raised to neighboring tables, with an enthusiastic "Một – Hai – Ba – dzô!" which means one, two, three, drink! We quickly became proficient in this Vietnamese tradition.

Empowering Women: Unveiling Shared Challenges Across Borders

Throughout our journey, we couldn't help but notice the strength and resilience of women in Vietnam. It became an ongoing joke that we predominantly saw women working, running shops, cooking, and managing stands in local markets. It was a partial joke but highlighted women's evolving roles and responsibilities in Vietnamese society.

Despite traditional norms, we met women breaking boundaries and going against the grain. We encountered inspiring stories like that of Ms. Minh, who held a job outside her husband's family home and became a successful businesswoman, defying societal expectations. We witnessed the increasing presence of women in careers and the shifting dynamics within households, where couples shared household duties and lived together before marriage.

In Vietnam, we discovered that women face many of the same challenges regardless of their cultural background. It reminded us that we are all connected, navigating similar paths and striving for empowerment uniquely.

A local seamstress in Ninh Binh

Embark on Your Vietnam Adventure: Now is the Perfect Time 

Our trip to Vietnam was nothing short of life-altering. Some of us had waited for decades to embark on this adventure of a lifetime. 

Vietnam became more than just a destination—it felt like home to many of us, with an unspoken thread connecting us to the country and its people.

There was a sense of shared memories, whether through our own experiences or the stories passed down from family members. For Americans, it was intertwined with the memories of foster siblings, refugee friends, and their descendants who still have ties to Vietnam, and an uncle and a father.  Our humanity became intricately entwined with theirs, reminding us of our interconnectedness as human beings.

If there's one piece of advice we can give you, it's this: embrace the opportunity to travel to Vietnam, immerse yourself in the local culture, and forge connections that will stay with you for a lifetime. 

The transformative power of travel is real, and Vietnam has a way of leaving an indelible mark on your heart and soul. So pack your bags, open your mind, and prepare for an adventure that will expand your horizons and leave you with cherished memories and a newfound appreciation for the beauty of human connection.

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Women are Underrepresented in Research. Why Should You Care?

As a woman, you have unique health needs and experiences that can differ from those of men. If women are underrepresented in research studies, the results may not accurately reflect their health outcomes or address their health concerns. This could lead to inaccurate diagnoses, ineffective treatments, and missed opportunities for preventative care.

Women comprise half of the population, and their voices and experiences should be equally represented in research studies. It is a matter of fairness and equity that women have the same opportunities as men to participate in research that impacts their health and well-being.

Research is critical for advancing our understanding of diseases, treatments, and health outcomes. Our knowledge in these areas may be limited if women are underrepresented in research studies. This can slow down progress in medical advancements and result in missed opportunities for discoveries and breakthroughs that could benefit everyone.

It’s our mission at Rumblings to ensure you have the science-based facts and education you need to understand what can impact your health so that you can take informed actions. We feel it is crucial for all women to care about underrepresentation in research because it can directly impact our health and well-being.

So this month, we interviewed women’s health expert and assistant professor at the University of Minnesota, Manda Keller Ross, Ph.D., DPT. Dr. Keller Ross shares her research background and interest in women's health in this interview. She discusses the gender gap in research, particularly in heart disease risk in women, which has been historically studied more in men. She focuses on studying the influence of menopause symptoms on blood pressure regulation and heart disease risk in women. Additionally, she highlights the barriers women face when participating in research and the importance of addressing the diversity in experiences and physiology among women. Lastly, she emphasizes the need for more women to participate in research to improve preventative strategies and treatments for women.

Rumblings Interview with Dr. Keller Ross.

Can you tell us a little bit about yourself, your background, and how you became interested in the research that you’re currently doing?

I am a mother of three young girls (8, 7, and 5 yrs), a scientist, and an educator. I have been studying blood pressure regulation and heart disease risk for about 10 years. In the last seven years, our laboratory has transitioned to studying primarily women’s health due to the dearth of information regarding heart disease risk in women and, in particular, how age and menopause influence this risk. The majority of the research in the area of heart disease has primarily been on men, and women have been traditionally underrepresented in medicine and science, particularly women with a non-white racial and ethnic background. This also means we have less available information regarding safe and effective therapies for women who are at risk for or have already developed heart disease. Our laboratory hopes to close this knowledge gap and be able to better understand some of the early risk factors of heart disease for women to identify effective preventative and therapeutic strategies to reduce heart disease risk for women.

We know that there are many age-related changes that women go through that increase their health risk, but is there a particular reason why you decided to focus on research related to menopause?

From what the literature suggests, prior to menopause, men have a greater prevalence of high blood pressure and increased heart disease risk compared with women. After the typical age of menopause, around 50-51 years, this risk increases substantially in women and surpasses that of men. This means that there is something in particular about the loss of sex hormones (estrogens and progesterone) in women that contributes to this greater risk. There is also evidence that menopause symptoms can be associated with heart disease, particularly hot flashes, night sweats, and difficulty sleeping. Our lab focuses on the influence of these symptoms and how the age of menopause influences blood pressure regulation to contribute to these greater risks.

Why is research on women’s health so important?

Women are important and have traditionally been ignored in research and science. For example, women participate in clinical trials much less than men for many reasons; however, this means that many drug trials are conducted only in men, but these same medications are given to women. Much of what we know about physiology was determined in men. Now we are playing catch-up to understand women’s physiology. It’s frustrating, but we are trying to be part of the solution.

What are the barriers for women to participate in research?

Women often carry several responsibilities simultaneously, and participating in research is not often at the top of their priority list. Women are working; they may be primary caretakers and are often not able to get the time off, cannot afford to take the time off, or need to be with their children. We have opened up our laboratory on the weekends for studies to help reduce this barrier, but often childcare is an issue. We have tried to set up childcare at the University for parents, but we have not been successful as there are some liabilities with this process. In addition, there is a lack of information provided to people in general about research and clinical trials, and information about menopause is often not shared with women unless women inquire directly with their physicians. There are often additional barriers for people of color, particularly the African American community, who have been traditionally exploited in research, and as scientists, we need to do a better job of connecting with their communities and building strong relationships and trust before engaging them in research.

Are there certain subsegments of women where we particularly need more research information, and why is that necessary? Can’t we generalize women’s research to all women?

Yes, there are definitely subsegments of women that we particularly need additional knowledge on regarding their health and strategies for disease prevention and treatment. We cannot generalize across subpopulations of women because life experiences have a strong impact on our physiology. One of the strongest examples that I can provide is racial stress. Non-white communities have experienced macro- and micro-aggressions for centuries, and we haven’t even really begun to understand how that has impacted their physiology. We know diverse communities are often at a greater risk for high blood pressure, heart disease, and kidney disease, just to mention a few, but we don’t have a clear understanding of why. These factors are often erroneously discussed in the literature as being connected to genetic or physiological differences, but we, as scientists, need to incorporate how life experiences, such as the trauma and stress surrounding racial discrimination, influence risk factors for these diseases.

Why is it important for women to participate in research studies from a researcher's perspective? What benefits can women experience by participating in research?

The majority of the knowledge we have obtained from the research, including clinical trials, drug trials, etc., has come from studies conducted in mostly men, in particular white men. This knowledge gets generalized to the community when it doesn’t always apply to women. Over the last 20 years, we have identified many breakthroughs in how the physiology of men and women are different. Sex hormones, including estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone, influence our muscles, heart, lungs, and blood vessels differently, and men and women have varying levels of these hormones. Thus, it is important for women to participate in research so that we can delineate differences in physiology between men and women, which will lead to improved preventative strategies and treatments for women.

Another important benefit of women participating in research is that they would contribute their experiences to the depth and breadth of knowledge on women. This knowledge will lead to better treatments for them, their daughters, and generations to come. If women do not participate in research, we can’t make strides in understanding risk factors that are specific to women and develop tailored treatments to prevent/reduce heart disease risk in women.

How can women learn about research studies they may be eligible to participate in?

• There are national websites that women can browse for research studies, such as clinicaltrials.gov

• Women can learn about studies at the University of Minnesota’s StudyFinder website: studyfinder.umn.edu

• Women can learn more about our lab and studies occurring in our lab by visiting: https://med.umn.edu/rehabmedicine/research/labs/cardiovascular-rehabilitation-lab.

What questions should women ask before participating in a study?

• What is the purpose of the study?

• What procedures are involved in the study?

• What are the risks of the study?

• How long does the study last, how many visits are there, and how long is each visit?

• Is there compensation for being a part of the study?

What should we do to advocate for getting more women involved in research?

We should educate women on what we know and do not know about women’s health and the consequences of that lack of knowledge. In addition, we should build relationships with the community and discuss the importance of their participation in research.

What is your hope for the future if we could close the gap in women’s health research?

My hope for the future is that we significantly reduce the risk of high blood pressure, heart disease, and mortality in women; that women know their risks and how to reduce their modifiable risk factors for these diseases; that women feel there is a space and place for them in research and clinical trials; and that women feel comfortable enough to talk to their family, friends and health care providers about menopause and advocate for themselves.

Thank you to Dr. Keller-Ross for taking the time to highlight the progress made in recent years to include more women in medical research and acknowledging that there is still a way to go to ensure equal representation in research. As moms, daughters, sisters, and friends, we need to spread the word and advocate for women to be included in research studies and to raise awareness of the importance of why our representation matters to our health and health care.

Learn more about Dr. Keller-Ross, The Cardiovascular and Rehabilitation Lab, and The effects of menopause on cardiovascular health in women study by clicking the links.

How to Build Resiliency in Midlife

On Monday, February 13, at 7:31 pm, I (Rebecca) got the text no parent ever wants to receive. “MSU police report shots fired. An incident occurring on or near the East Lansing campus. Secure-in-place immediately. Run. Hide. Fight.” 

At that point, I wasn’t too concerned but worried enough that I texted my Michigan State University sophomore son to check-in. Fortunately, he was safe off campus. I called a few minutes later, and to my surprise, he had walked back to his dorm right into the chaos of the mass shooting situation. He made it safely to his room and, with his roommate, moved two dressers against the door and listened to the police dispatch radio as they watched hundreds of police descend on campus outside their window. And they prayed for a friend who had gone to work and was in the Memorial Union, one of the shooting scenes.

Our family was glued to the television for hours, feeling helpless over 600 miles away. Three students were tragically killed that evening, five were seriously injured, and more than 50,000 students, faculty, friends, and family members were impacted. Sadly, my son’s good friend in the Memorial Union was one of the victims killed.

Our family is not alone in suddenly experiencing the unexpected. Over the last year, I have been working with a University of Minnesota research team. We analyzed data from families participating in a seven-month obesity prevention intervention. The team was surprised by how many families experienced a significant life event during the program. The families described these life events as interfering with their ability to follow through on their healthy lifestyle goals. They were derailed and didn’t have the personal skills to get back on track quickly. In other words, many people don’t have the resiliency skills to help them reset after a setback, life event, or trauma. 

What is resiliency?

Not surprisingly, I have been contemplating the concept of resilience.

• What is it?

• How do we build it?

• How do we activate it during trauma or significant life events?

• How do we live with grit, tenacity, and mental strength and use our healthy lifestyles to support us during challenging times?

• How do we teach and model resiliency for others, like our children?

Last week, Michigan State University offered a virtual event for parents with Dr. James Henry, co-founder and project director for the Western Michigan University Children’s Trauma Assessment Center. He defined resiliency as the ability to overcome adversity and trauma and build the capacity to heal.

Whether you’re facing significant trauma or minor life events—things can get in the way of following through on healthy behaviors. As a result, you may feel like cocooning, escaping, or reaching for things that give your comfort (e.g., food and alcohol). These feelings are normal.

We all experience the unexpected—sometimes, we get thrown off track for a few weeks, and sometimes we get knocked down for longer (e.g., COVID). The ultimate goal is to develop and deploy resiliency skills to overcome uncertainty, helplessness, stress, and trauma. I am not a psychologist or a trauma expert. I recommend seeking help when you feel stuck and are experiencing physical symptoms.

However, I can share tips that helped me the last few weeks and tips that assisted other women Karyn and I have worked with during their midlife behavior change journeys.

How do you build resiliency skills?

• Start thinking about your healthy lifestyle—eating well, exercising, getting adequate sleep, and managing stress— as keys to helping you build resiliency when life is going smoothly. Suppose you believe your healthy lifestyle enables you to feel better and have more energy. In that case, you’re more likely to believe in your ability to engage in healthy behaviors during challenging times. You’re also more likely to view those behaviors as tools to help you versus seeing them as another thing to do when you don’t feel your best.

• Set up your environment to support you during good times and unexpected challenges. Stock your pantry with healthy foods. Fill your refrigerator with fruits and vegetables. Bookmark gentle movement videos to pull out when you need to relax and unwind. Set your bedroom up to be a sanctuary for sleep and comfort. Your surroundings can make it easier to maintain healthy practices during challenging times. 

• Recall past experiences. Think back to previous challenges in your life. How did you overcome those? What coping strategies did you use? Write down how you dealt with hardships in the past. Reflect on these past experiences when you’re feeling stressed or overwhelmed.

• Remember, getting off track with your lifestyle goals is ok. Be kind to yourself. Give yourself time to move through the challenges. Being resilient means getting back on track slowly, one day at a time when you feel ready. When you’ve prepared for the unexpected, it will be easier to get back on track.

• Move your body in healing ways. Your movement choices may look different—a walk versus a run, a stretch instead of heavy-strength training, or deep breathing or meditation instead of a strenuous workout. Do what feels right. Moving will help you feel better both physically and mentally.

• Reach for nourishing foods to support you as you move through your challenges. Doing this will give you the energy and focus on facing uncertainty.

• Seek connection. When you’re ready, talk about your feelings and what you’ve been through with others. Strength is in togetherness.

• Be hopeful. Challenges require moving through the unexpected and feeling what you’re experiencing. However, feeling confident you’ll be ok will help you adapt as needed.

• Model resiliency skills. Engage in healthy behaviors during difficult times as you’re able. Talk about modifications you made to your routine to support yourself. Share your actions and feelings with others around you. Share the what, why, and how you’re using your resiliency skills to help you through a difficult time. 

• See yourself as a resilient person. Anytime you associate a behavior as part of your identity (e.g., I am a voter versus I vote), you will be more likely to act that way when the time arises. 

We all face life events and unexpected challenges that impact our daily routines. The hope is that we can overcome the setbacks and realize our healthy lifestyle can support us through challenging times and help us handle hard situations with more energy and focus. These are skills that we can help others, like our children, build too, and during challenging times we can model resilient behaviors. These skills give us faith that we can walk through even the most challenging aspects of life. Living well requires resiliency, and as we get older, we may need to rely on these skills more often than we have in the past. 

Let’s Rumble with resilience!

Recognizing Midlife Challenges: Ladies, you’re not alone!

Fashion After 50, A Fashion Week MN Event. Photo credit: G. Marie Images

“Right after your breakdown is your breakthrough.” – Trent Shelton 

Do any of the following midlife challenges sound familiar? Weight changes, including changes in your physical body shape, loss of strength and balance, or changes in your metabolism. 

We’ve been surveying women since 2021; those were the most common challenges they shared experience in midlife. 

Women also told us about feeling achy, having pain, and experiencing a lack of stamina or fatigue. All of which interfered with achieving their exercise and fitness goals. Eating healthfully and getting adequate sleep were also on the list. 

They also shared difficulties staying connected and engaged with friends (or the loss of friends) and family due to life transitions. The lack of connection was often described as feelings of loneliness. 

Women also felt torn between managing grown children, aging parents, and not having enough personal time to care for themselves.

Financial stress and feeling prepared for retirement were also reported as challenges. 

The list challenge list continued, although not as many women reported the following:

• Feeling stressed

• Getting healthcare professionals to listen

• Being self-compassionate

• Enjoying life without guilt

• Feeling invisible

• Experiencing ageism at work

• Having anxiety

• Dressing for age

• Increasing disease risks

• Finding purpose

How do you feel when you hear the challenges and struggles of other midlife women? Do they resonate with you? 

Sharing this list is not to overwhelm you with midlife challenges you may or may not be experiencing but to help you see YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Midlife is a time of transition, and with transition and changes come challenges. Our bodies are changing. Our kids are leaving home. Our parents are aging. Our friendship groups are changing and evolving. We may be reassessing what we want during this phase of our careers. Many women ask themselves, ”What is my purpose, and what should my life look like for the next decades?” 

Experiencing these challenges that come with midlife are common than most women believe them to be. And the difficulties faced during this time are natural too. It’s time to normalize, talk, and share the realities of midlife and lean on each other as we learn to position ourselves to live vibrantly. We can and should flourish through our 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, and beyond! 

The good news is that we can overcome the new challenges of midlife! With the right tips, tools, and techniques, you can tackle these challenges and live your best life! 

Here’s what you can do to overcome your midlife challenges:

1. Write down the challenges you face in midlife. Be very specific. It is not an exercise about wallowing in our challenges but recognizing them to address them. 

2. Keep your list visible. Add to the list throughout the week. 

3. Sign-up to receive our bi-weekly email newsletter. In each email, we provide tips, tools, and techniques for overcoming challenges and creating lasting change in your life. 

4. Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn, where we provide additional tips and talk about living vibrantly together.

5. Review your list frequently. Develop a plan to tackle one or two of the most pressing challenges you are experiencing.  

6. Take small steps every day to address your challenges. 

Most importantly, you’re not alone. We’re on this journey together, and at Rumblings, we believe women can and should flourish after 50!

Expert or Quack? Recognizing the real health, nutrition, exercise, and wellness experts

There is a proliferation of ‘experts’ on social media who claim to have a magic or singular approach for dieting, weight loss, quick fitness gains, and overall health. It’s challenging to tell the difference between an expert and someone only interested in selling something. How do you know what works and what is just the latest fad? 

Everyone loves the idea of a fast solution for losing weight and getting healthy. Unfortunately, there is no magic pill, and the promise of a quick fix can be the very thing that prevents you from achieving your long-term health goals. Even if you are cautious, it isn’t easy to differentiate the true experts from someone trying to sell you a product or quick-fix solution that doesn’t work and can even be dangerous for your health.

Below are tips to help you weed out the “wellness” imposters from your social media feed. 

Do their credentials align with the subject? Many high-profile, highly credentialed individuals give health advice beyond their training. Just because you eat and move your body does not make you an expert on nutrition and exercise.

Anyone can share their personal story of what has worked for them, but they cannot and should not be prescribing the same approach as the answer for everyone. And they should not be counseling others without proper education to customize personalized approaches for each individual.

For example, personal trainers can talk about healthier foods and the importance of eating a healthy and balanced diet. Yet, in Minnesota (and many other states), personal trainers cannot give you a nutrition plan. That is outside their credentials or educational background. They absolutely should not be selling or recommending specific micronutrients and supplements.  

Is there evidence of practice scope creep? Do your research to understand the credentials individuals have and determine what their scope of practice is with that credential. For example, a health coach is an individual who has typically received a coaching certificate for completing ~32 to ~75  hours of training. That is equivalent to less than one to two college courses. A health coach is trained to take you through a process of asking questions and helping you determine what you should do next to change or move towards your goals. They are NOT educated to give you specific or personalized health advice with only a coaching certificate without additional education. Sometimes degreed professionals also have coaching certificates to expand their scope of practice.

Another example is someone promoting themselves as a ‘Dr.’, but their degree is in another field, such as a doctor of chiropractic degree or a Ph.D. in philosophy. That degree alone may not give them the expertise to give dietary or weight loss plans, prescribe supplements, or exercise programs outside of treating the injury. 

Do they showcase scientific literacy? If they speak in absolutes, probably not.

As new research comes out, science is constantly evolving, and so should recommendations. Experts in their field will describe the nuances that come with any recommendation. 

For example, a registered dietitian nutritionist will never speak in absolutes about one diet being the only diet for weight loss. Nutrition and exercise programs should be personalized to an individual’s health history, activity level, and goals. 

Remember, it’s easy for someone to cherry-pick scientific articles and quickly cite references or research that substantiates their recommendations. Experts consider the totality of the research. True experts will evolve their thinking on a particular topic as the research progresses. 

Are their recommendations black and white? Absolute statements should be a red flag. If we’ve learned anything over the years, people are individuals, and their health needs are individualized. Experts provide nuanced recommendations and caveats based on individual situations and goals, not absolutes generalized to everyone. They are most likely to use caveats such as ‘it depends,’ ‘in some situations,’ and ‘for these circumstances’ rather than words like ‘must’ and ‘should.’

Your background, culture, traditions, desires, likes, and dislikes should play into any recommendations. No expert will tell you that you should eliminate certain foods or that only specific exercises done in a certain way or frequency will improve your health. 

Do their statements recognize individual differences? Take note if anyone is trying to give recommendations without knowing your health history, habits, and personal goals. This black-and-white thinking gets followers—vegan versus the carnivores, powerlifting versus functional training—but it confuses everyone and serves no one. And, if you are older and have chronic conditions or other health issues, it can be dangerous. 

Do they have established real-world experience? When you work with people, you learn a lot about how to help people change their behavior to improve their health in realistic ways and without injury. Sometimes what is happening in the real world is ahead of science. 

Seasoned health practitioners with an evidenced-based practice will always incorporate their hands-on experience, the weight of peer-reviewed literature, and the needs of the individual, along with client/patient preferences, in their recommendations. 

Will they profit from their recommendation? Experts are often spokespeople for products. They can say they only work with companies they trust and use their products personally. That is probably true, but consumers are savvy. These relationships create distrust. We’re not saying that this alone should make you question credibility, but pay attention to it. 

Assess whether someone is science-based. Look at the information they are presenting and their credentials. 

Is it more anecdotal promising a quick fix, or is it based on recent media hype?

You can learn from others' experiences, but they may not be the right people to advise you.

Science follows a hierarchy. Anecdotes, observational studies, randomized controlled trials (RCTs), systematic reviews, and meta-analyses of RCTs. Science-based experts look at the entire body of literature before making recommendations for an individual. Major organizations, like the American Heart Association, create position stands by weighing all the evidence.  When you understand the research, you realize recommendations need to be tailored to the individual. 

Lastly, true experts in a specific field will readily display their education and certification credentials, discuss their specialties and experience, and help with referrals to an expert in areas where they’re not qualified. 

It can be challenging to distill an expert from a good marketer. Take your time, review their recommendations, listen to your gut, and use these tips to help you decide if their advice is right for you.

Midlife Transitions and Challenges: A Call for a Renewed Vision

You feel a “rumbling” inside yourself that your life should be different from what it is right now. 

You’re not alone. 

One thing many midlife women have in common is the experience of an internal rumbling—a feeling something should be different or something needs to change. It may be hard to pinpoint where the discomfort comes from, but you feel an unsettling rising internally. 

This feeling could be the need for a change in your career, where you’re spending your time, how you’re taking care of yourself, who you socialize alongside, or how you experience fun. 

Whatever the cause…it is time to listen. 

Midlife is a time of transitions—kids are leaving home, friendships are evolving, careers are changing, parents are aging and need help, disease risks are rising, and bodies are aging. You’re not alone in feeling like you’re going through the motions, taking care of others, and postponing self-care during this time. As a result, you may feel tired, distracted, sleep-deprived, and lacking energy. 

The excellent news is…you’ve got this! You can reignite and flourish with a little focus, intention, and consistency. 

Here’s the thing, your old identity may be holding you back and sabotaging the future YOU. You may be stuck in old behaviors that are not aligned with who you are in midlife or who you want to be. You may be comparing your 20-, 30 -or 40-year-old self to your current self and unintentionally holding yourself back from living well now. 

“True behavior change is identity change.” – James Clear, author of Atomic Habits.

To create change, you must change your underlying beliefs about yourself and how you want to live. 

Your current beliefs and actions are a reflection of your current identity. Internal stories and limiting beliefs may be holding you back from living the life you envision. The rumbling you’re experiencing is most likely a reflection of an inner identity conflict—you want one thing, but your actions aren’t aligned. 

The best way to start feeling differently is to start living differently is to stop and reflect on your current beliefs, worldview, self-image, how you see others, and your biases. This is often referred to as your identity. 

Next, it’s time to reimagine a vision for your future self. 

You can do this by moving through the following steps: 

1. Close your eyes

2. Take a few deep breaths

3. Ask yourself:

• What is your vision for your life five years from now?

• What do you want to be doing and experiencing?

• Who do you want to be experiencing your life with?

• What brings you joy?

• What memories do you want to be making?

• How do you want your loved ones to remember you?

• How do you want your body to feel? Don’t focus on your appearance, but how do you want your body to FEEL?

• What energy do you want to be radiating? What energy and vitality do you want to put into the world?

• How do you want people to feel when they’re around you?

• How will you show up for yourself and your loved ones?

• Now think about ten, twenty, and thirty years from now. Does your vision change?

• What do you want your life to look like, and how do you want your body to feel and be capable of doing?

4. When you’re ready, write your thoughts, feelings, and vision down.

5. Repeat this exercise several times over the next few weeks to help you reframe and revise your midlife vision.

You are the architect of your life. To live your new vision, you must first let go of your old behaviors that are out of alignment. 

It’s time to start living your vision. 

1. Every day review your vision. Envision yourself living your dream. Immerse yourself in how you feel when your daily life aligns with your vision. Your brain will respond when you regularly visualize how you want to live. 

2. Next, take actions that are aligned with your vision. When making a choice ask yourself, “Is this decision or action aligned with my envisioned identity?”

Repeat every day, and soon you will reignite! If you need more help setting and living your vision, you may enjoy our 90-Day Vision Journal.

If you need help addressing your inner rumbling(s), check out our FREE downloadable worksheet to get started.

As you reflect on a midlife vision, you may enjoy reading two popular blog posts—Take Steps to Reignite Yourself After 50 and Five Ways to Reinvent Your Career— to get you thinking about the changes you want to make.

The Health Condition Almost Everyone Has But No One is Talking About

There is great interest in enhancing healthspan - improving the quality of life to be free from the disability and disease that occurs during most people's last 16 years of life. For most of us, our vision for the future includes living vibrantly, independently, and joyfully until the end of our lives. 

The good news is you can achieve optimal health and flourish as you age, but you must understand the reality of health in our country and take action today!

Some research about achieving optimal health during aging is undeniable, such as the link between exercise and all-cause mortality. In other areas, the research is still in the early stage, with the results seen only in mice, and the enthusiasm is ahead of the science. 

What we do know is Americans are getting sicker. The healthcare system focuses on treating disease rather than keeping us healthy because it is structured to provide greater incentives for treatment rather than preventing or slowing the progression of the disease. 

What You Need to Know 

For non-smokers, 80 percent of the deaths are from four diseases: 

1. Heart and Vascular Disease: Examples are stroke, heart attacks, atherosclerosis, and Transischemic Attacks

2. Cancer - obesity and metabolic syndrome are the leading cause of cancer, second only to smoking 

3. Neurodegeneration: Diseases where the cells of the central nervous system stop working properly or die. Examples are Alzheimer’s Disease, Parkinson’s, and ALS

4. Metabolic Dysfunction: Examples are Type 2 Diabetes, insulin resistance, metabolic syndrome/pre-diabetes, and mitochondrial dysfunctions (how the cells regenerate). Recent research indicates that Alzheimer’s Disease should be considered to be Type 3 Diabetes that affects brain function.

The foundation of all these diseases is metabolic health, which, if not optimized, increases the risk of metabolic dysfunction diseases and other primary conditions. 

There are many ways to define metabolic health, but a simple explanation relates to how well the body can generate and process energy from food. Glucose is the precursor to energy creation throughout the body, and when the body can’t use glucose properly, it leads to metabolic dysfunction. 

Good metabolic health is defined as having optimal levels for five biomarkers (without the assistance of medicine).

You have metabolic syndrome (also known as pre-Diabetes) if you are high in three or more of the following markers: 

• Abdominal or Truncal obesity - a waist measurement of 35 inches for women and 40 inches for men

• High blood pressure - Systolic >130 OR Diastolic >85

• High fasting glucose  - > 100 mg/dL

• High fasting triglycerides - >150 mg/dL

• Low HDL cholesterol - <50 mg/dL for women,

Unfortunately, 52% of Americans have been diagnosed with metabolic syndrome (pre-diabetes) or Type 2 Diabetes. And new research showed that only 6.8 percent of Americans had optimal metabolic health, and that percentage is declining. That means 93% of Americans are metabolically unhealthy, and the rest are at risk for developing almost every chronic condition. More importantly, most people don’t even know they’re at risk. 

These diseases slowly progress and are responsible for much of the disability and deteriorating health Americans see in the last decade of life. The impact is also felt way before the actual diagnosis of the disease. 

Up to 10 years before developing metabolic syndrome, a person starts to experience a disruption in metabolic health.  This disruption causes a change in the chain reactions of how different body parts signal to each other about how to do their job. When that happens, the body cannot function correctly in getting glucose out of the bloodstream to use it as fuel. 

The disruption affects the cellular functioning of the liver, brain, heart, kidneys, muscles, and even fat. This disruption over time is what leads to metabolic syndrome. 

The conversation about early prevention is missing from the mainstream discussion and is frequently not part of the discussion with primary care providers. 

It’s time to start managing biomarkers for optimal health long before we get metabolic syndrome.

What You Can Do To Manage Your Metabolic Health

You can do many things to improve this outlook, prevent chronic diseases, or push them closer to the end of life. The goal is to live without debilitating disabilities and poor health that may shorten your lifespan but may also shorten your healthspan and diminish your quality of life. 

Many years before you have elevated levels of key metabolic syndrome markers, your body is experiencing unhealthy metabolic function, and you don’t even know it. 

For unknown reasons, testing for hormone insulin levels in the blood is not part of a standard fasting testing panel ordered by health providers. Increasing blood insulin levels can be a very early indicator of metabolic health long before the potential impacts of metabolic dysfunction leading to metabolic syndrome and those other primary diseases causing 80% of deaths. 

A high insulin level indicates a lot of blood sugar or glucose floating around the system and not being used. Knowing your insulin level allows you to take action to stop the progression toward metabolic syndrome. Requesting a fasting insulin test in addition to the glucose and lipid panel tests your provider orders can help you take early action. 

However, you don’t need lab tests to take action now to maintain good metabolic health. While you can manage metabolic syndrome with pharmacological treatments, medication will not improve overall metabolic dysfunction, so maintaining good function is essential. You can do many things related to lifestyle to maintain good metabolic health. 

• Eat whole, unprocessed foods, mostly plants. Avoid fad diets and caloric restrictions as they may provide a downward spiral for your metabolic health. 

• Move more, sit less. Physical activity and exercise can have the most dramatic impact on being metabolically healthy. Improving lean body mass and muscular strength is key to improving metabolic health. 

Unfortunately, years of chronic caloric restriction diets combined with insufficient exercise focused on improving muscular strength may have put you in peril for metabolic dysfunction. 

Resistance training and strength training to gain muscle strength and lean body mass is the best exercise for healthy metabolic function. Yet, even something as simple as taking a brisk walk after meals can reduce your blood sugar elevation. 

Move more throughout the day rather than having one workout at the end of the day. It’s not enough to sit all day and do one small chunk of physical activity. Read more on how to get more physical activity in your day. 

• Get appropriate amounts of sleep. It’s good for your body and your brain. Read more on getting better sleep. 

• Manage stress in healthy ways. Chronic exposure to physical or psychological stress is linked to metabolic diseases, including obesity, cardiovascular disease, and Type 2 diabetes. Look for ways to help you manage stress and be calmer. 

• Manage light. Getting bright sunlight early in the day while limiting bright light and screen time later in the evening can alter your metabolism. Scientists found bright light exposure increased insulin uptake compared to dim light exposure in the morning. In the evening, bright light caused higher peak glucose (blood sugar) levels.

Metabolic dysfunction is the root cause of many chronic diseases experienced today. Most people aren’t even aware it exists. It should be part of the mainstream conversation when talking about health. 

The good news is most of your metabolic health is within your control with simple dietary, exercise, and lifestyle changes.

It’s never too late to start. Even the smallest step towards better health, such as going from being sedentary to being more physically active throughout the day, can considerably improve your metabolic health and overall well-being! 

Don’t wait. Start today. If you need support, join us at an upcoming Reignite virtual course. You’ll learn how to take action today and leave with your personalized plan for living well and flourishing. 

Tips for Better Sleep

I, too pass from the night,

I stay a while away O night, but I return to you again and love you. Walt Whitman

Few people are satisfied with their quality and quantity of sleep. For midlife women, hormones and other life stressors impact sleep more during this life stage than at any other time outside of young parenthood. 

We all want to feel well rested and alert after a night’s sleep to face a day with joy and optimism, but few people realize that a poor night’s sleep is detrimental to our long-term mental and physical health. 

As the research on the impact of sleep on overall health and disease prevention increases, it’s becoming widely recognized as important as eating well and exercising. There is a reason evolution has designed humans to spend one-third of their 24-hour day sleeping. 

Lack of sleep is linked to obesity, the risk of developing metabolic diseases like diabetes, overall inflammation, and, more recently, depression, suicide, anxiety, ADHD, and immune dysregulation. Even newer evidence links poor or inconsistent sleep patterns to an increased risk of breast, prostate, colon, and endometrial cancers.  

While it was previously thought that not much happens during sleep, this is a time for tremendous activity in the body. During sleep, our bodies sort new information and experiences, store new memories, produce red blood cells, repair tissue damage, reinforce the circadian system, contribute to energy balance, and repair tissue. 

There is also newer evidence that the long list of things occurring during sleep impacts health more than previously believed. For example, circadian system dysregulation caused by poor sleep affects every cell in your body. 

The circadian system controls cellular energy production, which controls functions like releasing hormones, digestion, and immune defenses – all of which require a steady supply of energy. If this gets disrupted due to lack of sleep, it’s like your body is not functioning in sync, and that’s unhealthy. The circadian system governs all body functioning, and sleeping helps support its function. 

If you’re getting the sense that sleep is essential to life itself – it is!

Quality matters as much as quantity in sleep. We can do things without too much effort to improve both! Similar to other health habits, our habits of prioritizing our sleep can have a tremendous impact on improving the quality of our sleep patterns. 

Try these ideas to get your sleeping habits on the right track. 

• It starts with waking. What we do when we first wake up in the morning primes us for successful sleeping. A consistent routine helps you feel more in control of your day and enables you to cope with everyday stressors and anxiety. 

You can start your waking routine before rising with light stretching or meditation before putting your feet on the floor. 

One newer recommendation is to expose your eyes to bright light as soon as possible in the morning for 15 - 30 minutes to activate cortisol which will release energizing neurotransmitters and help with your circadian system. Natural, early morning sunlight is best, but you can also use a light box if early daylight is in short supply.

• Spend the day preparing for sleep. Finding what works for you may be a series of trials and errors, but the key is to keep trying to see what works best for you. Some guidelines from sleep experts include:

  • Start the day with water, and if you are a caffeine drinker, hold off for 90 minutes after waking. Adding lemon to your water may be stimulating. Water helps rehydration after sleep. New research shows warm liquids after waking are what contribute to wakefulness. 

  • Avoid hitting snooze may help prevent daytime grogginess

  • Doing something you love in the morning helps motivate you to get out of bed – a coffee meditation ritual, an early morning walk, journal, yoga, or a morning run may work for you.

  • An early morning walk provides additional benefits of physical activity and time in nature and lowers stress levels while boosting your mood and cognition in preparation for your day. Starting your day with movement helps with motivation to keep moving throughout the day. 

  • Be physically active  – this is one of the most important things you can do to help you sleep better. A research study found that healthy adults who did strength training fell asleep faster and woke up less frequently throughout the night. Avoid more strenuous exercise within 3-4 hours of sleep, although this is highly personalized. 

  • Switch to noncaffeinated beverages and food after 2 pm, and be mindful of hidden caffeine sources in chocolate, teas, and sodas. There are even food additives that can contain caffeine. 

  • Be consistent in sleep and rising times, even on the weekends. On those occasions where you just don’t get enough sleep, be extra mindful of your sunlight exposure in the morning or twilight hours.

  • According to the National Sleep Foundation, a 10 to 30-minute nap is good for restoring alertness and boosting performance. However, a nap after 3 pm makes it harder to fall asleep at night, and you want to avoid napping longer than 30-minutes to prevent entering deep sleep. After 3 pm, it’s better to power through tiredness (without caffeine) and turn in a little earlier. 

• Create a bedroom sanctuary. Because of the amount of time spent sleeping, a mattress may be one of the most essential pieces of furniture or health care products in your home. And, your bedroom is one of the most important rooms. A few minor changes can create a space that is a sanctuary and will set the foundation for a restful night of sleep. 

  • Temperature is key. The ideal temperature for most people is between 65-67 degrees, and dropping your body's core temperature helps you fall and stay asleep. A smart thermostat can help you raise the temperature during the last 15 minutes of your sleep, which will help you wake easier. 

  • Any ambient light from night lights or electronics can inhibit melatonin production. Even if you have room darkening shades, it may be helpful to wear a sleep mask to block any light seeping through your eyelids. Even a reflective mirror can impact light in a room.

  • Keep your room free from clutter. If possible, have your home office outside of your bedroom. Soothing, softer paint, and fabric colors can be calming and help set up your environment for a good night's sleep.

  • Invest in cool, comfortable bedding that creates a feeling of being in a cocoon. Don’t forget to include pillows.

  • Limit electronics, including televisions, cell phones, and smartwatches, and the temptation to use them in bed.

• Train your brain to unwind. A routine of winding down between 60 and 90 minutes before bedtime can help you relax and create a foundation for preparing your body for sleep. It assists your brain switch from active to rest mode.

  • Be intentional with your use of electronics. If you get plenty of bright light exposure during the day, it’s OK to use screens in the evening, but turn them off 30-60 minutes before bedtime. 

  • Dim the lights in the house to help your body know it’s evening and not daytime. 

  • Take a warm/hot bath or shower. Not only will this relax you, but it also lowers your core temperature, which will also help you fall asleep and stay asleep. 

  • Focus on your senses. Journal or read to help redirect your thoughts and prevent anxiety-producing self-talk.

  • Incorporate meditation or light stretching as part of your pre-bed routine. It can help quiet the mind, and stretching can help avoid aches and pains that make you toss and turn at night. Stretching may also help you wake up less stiff and achy in the morning. 

  • Avoid alcohol, food, and heavy exercise close to bedtime that can disrupt your ability to sleep. The impact of these things varies among individuals, so journaling what activities precipitated both restful and disrupted sleep can help pinpoint what activities to avoid immediately before bed.

  • Use an app that plays ambient noise and peaceful music or tells soothing stories to help promote sleep. 

• Understand Sleep Disorders. The CDC defines short sleep duration as less than seven hours in 24 hours; almost one-third of Americans get fewer hours of sleep than the recommended amount. Several sleep disorders go beyond a lack of sleep. Common conditions include insomnia, sleep apnea, restless legs syndrome, narcolepsy, and REM sleep behavior disorder. Of these, sleep apnea is one that often gets misdiagnosed and mistaken for insomnia. 

When is it time to seek treatment? After you’ve tried all the sleep hygiene habits listed for some time and are still struggling to get quality sleep, feel unrested after awakening, and struggle to make it through the day, it is time to talk to a professional about participating in a sleep study. 

Most sleep studies are conducted overnight at a sleep center or will require you to wear sensors at home. Sleep studies can also examine the stages of sleep and your sleep cycles, essential to ensuring quality, restful sleep. During the deepest sleep stages is when information transfer occurs in the brain. A disruption in these deep sleep cycles - during high alcohol consumption, for example - impacts the quality and quantity of sleep.

Newer technology and apps can help pinpoint possible sleep disorders before a sleep study. Sleep tracking through an app is not scientifically exact, but it can help identify sleep trends. For example, knowing if you snore after consuming alcohol or eating that late-night snack can help you adjust your behaviors. 

Midlife women tell us they believe their hormones impact their sleep. While symptoms such as hot flashes and night sweats during menopause can cause wakefulness at night, there isn’t good scientific evidence of a causal relationship between hormonal changes and sleep quality. Some of these tips, particularly room temperature and bedtime routine, may significantly affect sleep during menopause.

It is known that deep, restful sleep is more active than previously thought, and it impacts every part of life. It deserves attention and exploration to find the right balance of techniques to ease you into dreamland and keep you there until it’s time to awaken. Pleasant dreams!